Self Esteem By Katt Williams

So I had a chat with one of my male friends. I was going over the idea that I'm still talking to a guy, who I feel just doesn't care enough about me, only so he can realize the magic of me.
That I am indeed smart, wonderful, beautiful, rather gorgeous, witty, sweet, enchanting, and the like. And once he affirmed these things then I'd be OK, and could then stop talking to him.
But, after I actually said that thought to someone else out loud, I knew how self defeating that was.
I know better and now I feel better to just let it be what it is, and situation that is just not worth upsetting me.
And it is definitely not worth stealing my joy. So, this clip is so funny & so true!!
Enjoy and don't forget the person you love today should always be YOU first.

LMAO Random Funniness!!

OMG I just had to post this it is so so hilarious. That why I always, make sure to test out the chairs I sit in. LOL!!

D.L. Hugley At A Sarah Palin Rally

This absolute comedy, I can only say the ignorance must be the new USA virtue!

Vote because these ppl will be!!!

This is the reason we definetely need to get off our behinds and vote.

Uhhhhhh Men Sometimes I Don't Get It

So I just got home from a Hennessy Artistry Event- featuring Ne- Yo, Leona Lewis, Fabulous.

It was a good time had by all, so there this guy lets can him "Tim". Tim is sooooooooooo hard to understand. I'm so tired of trying to figure him out. Every time I want to label him, "He's not that into you". He does something that makes me think he likes me, but I'm so utterly confused. I surrender, put my white flag up, I don't know what the answer is.

Note to self: HENNESSEY is just wrong for me the brown juice is not my friend, its bad very bad.

I am really tired- mentally, emotionally, romantically. Sometimes it just hurts so much, what exactly is it, it loneliness. The lack of human contact, you can be in the room with so many, but not have someone to have a intimate general connection with. Someone that you knows understands you. And really know what you mean!

I finish this up later, I'm crying that type of cry that makes your nose snotty, so I have to go get a tissue, and I don't wanna come back to the PC.
I going to go to sleep, and never drink Hennie again.

Till next time: Is it just me???

"If I Were A Boy" Beyonce

So Ms. Beyonce is accused of stealing this song from name a unknown singer called BC Jean. I heard both songs and I definetely think I like BC Jean version better. Check it out and let me know what you think..... http://www.bcjean.net/. Click on songs.

Beyonce New Video "Single Ladies"

So I like the concept however after hearing it about 5 x's I'm tired of it, not sure if this is the new "Irreplaceble" but I guess it wii do..... What are your thoughts??

You Have Such a Beautiful, Pretty Face! :/

Why thanks!?? I am sooo over tongue in cheek comments, such as

• "You're so pretty for a dark skin girl....
• "You're dress so nice for a big girl...
• "You're look so nice with glasses....
• "You're speak so well....
• "You're so nice for a New Yorker...
• "I woulda neva guessed you were from Brooklyn...

The list goes on and on. So, lets tackle my personal favorite, 

"You have such a pretty face." Which ultimately means if you weren't so fat then you could be a beautiful whole person instead of a head of attractiveness. 

I could really smack the next person that says that to me. 

I get it I'm pretty, beautiful, albeit gorgeous. 

But, does my rolls, or thighs really minimize that?? 

How about you keep your compliments/diss to yourself.

Thanks, your so hot for a old broad!

Texting Is NOT, I repeat not a substitute for a REAL call!!!

So is it just me or has this whole textin thing gotten out of control?? I know it can be convenient. I know sometimes you want to dissipate info w/o pressing talk. But, really I know at least 5 guys that I have dated that honestly talked to me more threw text, than actually convo.  What is really the worst that can happen, you talk, and the other person talks. 

It not that hard it been done for ages b4 textin.  

Do you realize I can't even type full sentences since I so use to abbreviating everything. I HATE being limited to 160 characters!!!! Also, what the rest of the world does not take into consideration, is that we don't all have Crackberry's. 

So I have to punch 3 buttons every time you press one. 

Also, are we so afraid of human contact, connections, and the like, that it is easier to text than to talk??

I know this one guy we'll call him Superman- he text me about how much he missed me, was happy to hear from me etc. He did that for 2 months before I realize that it been that long since I had spoken a word-verbally

 to him. Then there was Teardrop he cursed me out, fought with me, threw no less than 30 texts. Why?   It really not that difficult push Talk and do that Talk????

If the press on the other end is two long winded, you can always click over and say you have another call.......

Even better say is your mom on the next line, no one can get mad that they got cut off for Mommy Dearest!

Is It Just Me???? Or Do People Lie When It Not Even Necessary?!

So, last nite i was watching "I Want to Work For Diddy" online of course because I don't have cable. (BTW I guess I'm still the only one who thinks that it is a totally unnecessary monthly expenditure. But whateva I digress. So I watchin Diddy show which I like and think is equally not as good as it could be, but Eehh! And a IM message comes in. So, I open the window and it this guy that I met online from a online dating site. I know that is another post all together. Anyway, this guy looks good from his pics on his profile. Tall, you need to know that I'm a giant-6'ft and a bit. So he definitely my cup on tea. Now he goes into this whole bit about how he works for a construction company, that have office in France, so he is in Paris as we speak. Hmmmmmmm, ok SURE!! Wink, Wink. 

So I as wat exactly is he going in Paris, he like mostly office work. So, the construction co. you work for in NYC has taken you to Paris to do office work. Completely believable, right? Of Course so this I how the very short convo goes.

 

Me: So what time is it there? (It 12 am in BK)

Lying Dude: Oh it 4:58

Me: Really, isn't it 6 hr time difference from NY to Paris?

Lying Dude: What time is it the there?

Me: 12 am

Lying Dude: Oh, I must have made a mistake.

Me: Oh, ok well I got to go to bed now. TTY

Lying Dude: Oh, you don't want me to come see you?

Me: Come see me? I thought you just said your in Paris, for a month or so. 

How are you going to see me?

Lying Dude: Blah,blah,blah

So, anyway I stopped paying attention and signed off. I was being interrupted from watching Diddy. And could you believe that the assistants from Diddy had to go to Paris, France on this episode. 

Now, do we think that Lying Dude saw the episode as well. I mean it was Tuesday nite, and Diddy comes on VH1 on Mon. I believe. 

So the question then becomes: 

Is it just me or do men lie when it not even necessary just for the sake of lying. I don't for sure. Maybe there are some scientific studies I can go research????